forgiving and living in the present moment

to forgive ourselves and others is a vote to live in the present moments.
if we say NO we wont forgive that person because of that wrong action,instead of taking action to improve ourselves ,we prefer to live in the past.
when we oppose forgiveness,WE suffer.most of the time the person that have done sth wrong ,doesnt even know what is happening in our minds.it's gone.it's finished.why we should be the sufferer?
sometimes we hear that sb says i fogive ,but i cant forget.i believe that it is an excuse .we say this to have sth in a case that we need that wrong action to remind us in later time and to blame the wrong doer.(real forgiveness is really letting go)

هميشه حرفهاي قشنگ وزيبا بسيار گفته مي شودامامن از زيباييهاي اين انسانهاچيزي را درک نکرده ام.من اول عشق را در مادرم وبعد در آسمان يافتم.آن هم فقط آسمان شب.عشق من يعني ماه زيبايم که در آسمان بي انتها است.شما هم امشب به او نگاه کنيد.ببينيد که چه معصومانه روح شما را نوازش مي دهد.نه مانند خورشيد که بي رحمانه حتي اجازه ي ديده شدن خود را هم به شما نمي دهد.

ماه در اوج آسمان می رود
و ما در گوشه ای از شب
همچنان به گفت و گوی دست ها گوش فرا داده ایم و ساکتیم
و در چشم های هم یکدیکر را می خوانیم
در چشمهای هم یکدیگر را می بخشیم
ما همه ی دنیا را در چشمان یکدیگر می بینیم
در چشمان هم ساکتیم اما می شنویم و ما چشم در چشم هم یکدیگر را می خوانیم و
می خوانیم
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'' it is sad to think of how many people have invested so much in tomorrow.we don't know what might happen in the very next moment,and that moment maybe lost forever.''said Leo Buscaglia. I agree with him and want to tell all of you let's start from this moment of our lives to create the best moments.

Where is the light?

Neverland… where we(my friends & I) are in. We are looking at its beauty through this blog, I guess!

Beauty?

Reality?
Love?
Peace?
Learning?
Wisdome?
Creativity?
Joy?
Suffer?…

They are all known by heart. They are expressed in these sounds; l-o-v , r-i-y-a-l-i-t-i , …

In "Living, Loving, Learning"- That's where the light is ...; Leo Buscaglia talks about them, beautifully:

"If you are TRULY a LOVER, you want to give the best you there is. And that means developing all the wonder of you—as a unique human being."

"Knowledge is not wisdom! Learning alone is not wisdom. Wisdom is application of knowledge and facts. Wisdom is realizing you know nothing. Wisdom is saying, ' my mind is open. Wherever I am, I'm just beginning. There is more to be realized by a hundred-fold than what I know.' That's the beginning of wisdom."

"Remember that your learning can hamper you if you believe that what you know is reality and therefore, you are screening out all things that are coming in."

I feel the love inside. I should remind myself, from time to time, what wisdom is.

But…
Reality? What is it?

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